Thanks for connecting to Exceptional Friendship. It Indicates your Mind Full of Cordiality .
i Really Desire your Innovative Quality Liking your Unique Personality.
May Almighty Bless us All, Please Pray for ALL of our Success ; Take Care
Thanks for connecting . It Indicates your Mind Full of Enthusiasm to know about the Best way. . .
May Almighty Bless us All, Please Pray for ALL of our Success ; Take Care
Birthdays might not be done always accurately on particular dates rather we all should pray for our Ultimate Success in this world and hereafter always..
...specially in good occasions....
Wish this new year of u make a superb well difference........
Wishing u a Jakkas! Boss! Fatafati! Glorious! Enormous! Super! Duper! Bumper! Joss! "Birthday"
may all your dreams come true... may every moment of your life bring love & joy to you. wishing you always the best....... care
Thanks a Lot for your Best Wishes. Yes,We Desire Happy Moments Always...Each & every day in Life:Almighty-Willing.
Take Care ... CHEERS :))) MEANs a LOT to Me.
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contact
@@@ Talking/ Speaking/ Meeting
=greeting them,
=asking how are they, their parents and children/relatives/desired members
=smiling face / happy~state of mind+peace
Praise.You mean a lot to me+remember&Miss u so much. Ishare
Good Listener*
-religious status
~relating to events of previous contact
Maintaining, ?
Educational,
meal,
appearance+outlook,
home refreshment
security+transport,
Recreation
+whether caring close relationships regularly
*prime/exclusive needs
warding off \\\harm / resist or fight evil
~~~at times of need
=money
=helping in All good ways as much as possible
My duty:
=praying for guiding them to the Right Path
\\\telling them that the reason for restricting/cutting the contact is because of their deviation
@@@ sms, e-mail or the Internet,
=advising, = teaching (=contents being limited to permissible matters)
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The ties of kinship may be by ==money, by ===helping at times of need, by warding off ===harm, by meeting them with a ===smiling face, and by ===praying for them. The general meaning is that one helps them in good ways as much as possible and helps them to resist or fight evil as much as possible. This is the case if one’s relatives are righteous, but if they are kaafirs or are wrongdoers, then cutting off ties with them for the sake of Allaah is how one maintains the tie, on the condition that one tries to warn them, and tells them that the reason for cutting the ties is because of their deviation from the truth. At the same time, the connection of making du’aa’ for them should remain, and you should pray for them in their absence that Allaah will guide them to the Right Path
Is it permissible for my husband to speak to his cousin (daughter of his maternal aunt) to greet her by phone? What are the shar’i limits on that?.
Praise be to Allaah.
There is nothing wrong with your husband speaking to his (female) cousin and asking how she is, so long as he pays attention to the shar’i guidelines concerning that, i.e., there should be a need for him to speak to her; there should be no softness in speech on the woman’s part or enjoyment thereof on the man’s part; the talk should be permissible and serious, with no joking or laughing. His cousin is a stranger (non-mahram) like anyone else, so she should not be soft in speech when talking to her (male) cousin, or talk too much to him for no need, or mix serious talk with jokes and laughter and the like, which is something that people who do not know the shar’i limits concerning that usually take lightly when talking to relatives. If the man wants to check on his female relatives and see how they are, there is nothing wrong with him ===greeting them, ===asking how they and their parents and children are, then he should end his conversation. This may be done at ===various intervals, whenever there is a need for that.
Contact with a fiancée via the Internet
As salamu alaykum
I asked a sister for her hand in marriage on-line and we talk to each other casually on the internet; is it allowed to speak to her even though I am not able to get married until I graduate (in 3 years).
Praise be to Allaah.
If a proper nikaah (marriage contract) has been done, then you can talk to her however you want, whenever you want, because she is legally your wife, even if you have not yet consummated the marriage. But if the Islamic contract has not yet been done, then she is still a "stranger" (non-mahram) to you, so avoid \\\***speaking directly to her. As for corresponding with her via @@@ sms, e-mail or the Internet, there is nothing wrong with doing so, as long as the ===content of your letters is restricted to permissible matters such as ===advising, === teaching and so on. But be very careful not to get dragged into \\\romantic talk or anything else that could \\\inflame desires or result in something \\\ bad.
May Allaah help us and you to obey Him and to avoid everything that may earn His wrath. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad
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Thanks for connecting to a GREAT Friendship. It indicates ur Mind Full of Cordiality really.
May Almighty Bless us All, Plz Pray for ALL of our Success ; Take Care
I'm sorry we don't know each-other in Reality that way till now, but thanks 2 facebook . we r grateful 2 omnipotent creator. All praise to Almighty, Sorry to Bother u!
Peace on u, I believed:"Trust your heart don't be afraid to reach out to something NEW. Go ahead get your hopes up... even if things turns out differently than you have IMAGINED,You will have tried, you will have learned, you never have to live with regrets.It seems to me what wears us."
U R Truly Ingenious~~it's my belief and heart's expressions..............Spry SAAD.....
Your birth day is the perfect day to say Cheers,
......
and when you do Celebrate it Specially...
I greet you will be the one who would care
to make ur special day a Interesting affair!!!!
Birthdays r not always done accurately on particular dates rather we all should pray for our triumph in this world and hereafter always..
...specially in good occasions....
Wish this new year of u make a superb well difference........
Wishing u a Jakkas! Boss! Fatafati! Glorious! Enormous! Super! Duper! Bumper! Joss! "Birthday"
american believe best care dreams faith families generation help home hope idea
life promise together union world years
, Peace be on U=
Upon severe research & Brain-storming thinkings,
at last with the help of Almighty , I found birth-dates to be converted in form of Arabic calender.
According to my analysis, Ur date of birth was "Yaum-al-jum`a": 2nd of Dhul-Hidjdja(Zdjil Hajj) 1411 A.H. which is this year on 09 Nov* i.e. tomorrow... giving u the true gesture of year ahead than the english calendar (as the average Arabic year is shorter than Gregorian/Eng year.)
Wish this new Arabic year of u make a superb well difference........
Wishing u a Jakkas! Boss! Fatafati! Glorious! Enormous! Super! Duper! Bumper! Joss! "Exceptional Moments in Arabic Way"
TC,
*more or less days differ depending on moon in different years...
about replying message,,, i'am bit in a Fix with Timing , also Actually more Desire to Exchange VIEWs, gossiping Face-to-Face!....Feeling the Presence/Realistic Correspondence of Friend....
while I am in the Internet/online/cellphone/sms/chat/distant communication,,,,My attitude may be like "bidaai bidaai";;; cause as I have told you earlier(as you know) that I really prefer to communicate/talk/exchange feelings Face-to-Face being present with the Person:)))
. trying to fulfill duties to every1 especially Parents; & relatives
I'm thinking of a Huge change in planning & leading my Life: I desire to be very good and Extremely peaceful person and want to acquire the ability to balance & fulfill due duties towards people at every aspects Greatly in this life.....
Thumbs UP...... u r Happy with him,thats great; He is also very Lucky that He Found u,.... Wishing U Peaceful Happy Life. Thanks for letting me know; I believed such a Wonderful Girl ...surly'll hav Great Mate...
Actually, for my Life-partner I havnt decided any now; i'd love to Meet my Sweetheart about 1 year prior to My Intended Marriage date InshaALLAH.
plz pray for me.
ur plans r truly great & stable...
i realize, perhaps becoming famous or business is actually deviated from what i actually wished!
"a simple blissful lyf"---thats what is most desiring, ur plan rox. i must admit that the most nice plan of urs is that u InshaALLAH'll b marrying at such great time, hv kids,raise them up..........just awesome. i & 1 of my Aussie frnds were discussing a few days earlier about this matter... at 1 point he & i agreed that, in this world with uncertain lifetime, people shud marry&hv kids quik,so that they raise them up properly and see & enjoy with their grandchildren early with Almighty's consent.
My medical classes also started now,.... visiting desiring Wards & interacting with patients also started!! just wanna adhere to proper Med duty.
, its very emotional & Heart-touching for me that i was very Lucky to b ur early fb frnd:)!
I am very very optimistic & so are my many future plans...
some are: InshaALLAH,
Leading peaceful Enjoying Islamic life,spread valid Islam & doing Good works to attain The Highest Part of Jannat-Ferdaus.
taking care of Honorable Parents.
maintaining regular & Harmonious relations with relatives.
becoming Great doctor & awesome honest Rich Businessman.
staying in good foreign country e.g. My Hometown Al-Madeenah & try to develop/help BD.
spending Romantic Pleasant life with Sweetheart(wife), fulfilling Our Desires to the best of abilities.
Making People HAPPY.
*More wishes to learn overall about: Electrical Engineering, Bio-Genetic-Technology, Bio-Medical Eng., Well Behavior, Attractive Representation, Gratifying People, Understanding Human psychology, Computer Extremes etc.
Becoming Famous and becoming Powerful authoritatively Worldwide.
actually , i saw ur comment later as nowadays i come to fb for short time after delayed intervals...... sorry that i was busy on the next day due to a sudden visit to historical places of Comilla as they wished which caused xtra delay :(
Also, whenever i see ur comments, i always try to reply Greatly asap. I even prepare the replying comments in Well-Accepted manner so that it seem Nice to U; TRULY.
when i saw the situation after returning , i became really Shockingly sad as i cudnt thank u Earlier :(
I surly wanted to THANK U, saying THANK U now, & will be Thanking U Insha ALLAH for All ur Great Works Always.
still sorry, pardon me as i hurt u :((( which i never-ever dreamt or wanted.
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mum
An offer to wash up the dishes.
A cup of tea without her asking.
Tidy round after she goes to bed, so that when she wakes up the house is tidy.
Buy her little ornaments for round the house so when she sees them she remembers you.
Phone your mum just to tell her you love her.
Buy her surprise gifts.
Go to her when she calls you.
Write a poem for her.
Bring your wife to her to learn how to cook, she will enjoy teaching her your favorite recipes, and both of you praise her cooking.
Clean the house without your mum having to ask.
Tell her how happy you are that she is a part of your life and your own families.
Always take your mothers side in front of your wife; you can appease your wife later on out of sight.
Give her money to treat herself.
Go to get the shopping for her.
Spread the salaam when you leave and return from the home.
Comb her hair.
Do well in school
Pray all your prayers on time
Don't always have your mum waking you up for prayer; try to wake her up instead.
Help her with new technology, this stimulates her brain and keeps her mentally fit.
Take an interest in her hobbies. If its sewing making sure she has all the things she needs.
Listen to lectures together; watch programs together this is what makes the bond stronger between you.
If affordable, try to buy her the best and freshest food at the supermarket
Take her out for drives in the car, especially if you live in the city take her to the countryside, go with the whole family and take a picnic.
Ask your mother about her youth, most mothers love recalling their past
Be good to her relatives and her friends
Have a good relationship with your brothers and sisters; there is nothing more worrying to a mother than seeing her children at odds with one another.
Never raise your voice or speak in a harsh tone to your mother.
Tell her regularly what's going on in your life, don't let her hear your news from others.
Seek her opinion in all major decisions, she has been there and done that.
Always thank and praise her for the good job she has done over the years.
Ring your mother if you're going to be late getting home.
Make sure she has contact with other good sisters who will increase her Iman.
Know what makes your mother smile and do it often.
Be an active and a productive member of society. Mothers are happy when they see this.
Buy your mum flowers, the smell and prettiness of flowers do wonders.
Get married and choose a spouse who your mother approves of.
Choose a wife who is soft hearted and will treat your mother well.
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Look after her health, reminding her of the benefits of a good diet and some exercise.
Buy her beauty products,
Always intervene in any disputes between your parents calmly.
Buy her gold, women like it and it's an investment.
Serve her first with the food.
Use affectionate terms for her and other motherly terms of affection.
Always open the door for her.
Make her a large part of your grandchildren's lives; always bring them over to visit.
Don't enter into debates that you know will irritate each other, especially in the morning and at night.
